Assalamualaikum w.b.t, its been reaaaly quite sumtime since u last mention sumthing in ur blog here eh Hanafiah? Haha, never mind, ive gotta admit consistency had always not been of ur strengths, but we’ll improve dat aspect later.
Okay, first of all, I’d like to say few things about marriage, why marriage? Its becos its one of the most important phase that I really look forward in life right now, and it seems every effort and decisions I’m making right now is influenced by this non-rhetorical, sacred idea.
Eversince I was a kid, I wish I cud have a big family, so im looking forward to have my own kids, and from now on, these things im writing are for u kids, yeah, seriously. Im writing this to u even before u were born, sebelum azali lagi. I don’t know if u, my beloved children will be reading this, or will I be dead even before I had the chance to get married and have my own child, or whatever the fate had in its store for me, insyaAllah, i will try my best to suck it up, dan redha dgn ketentuan Ilahi. Sesungguhnya setiap yang buruk itu datangnya dari kelemahan dan keburukan kita sendiri, dan kita hanya mampu merancang, tetapi tuhan sahaja yang mampu menentukan.
Well, perhaps u kids cud see this as one of those ‘How I Met Your Mother’ sitcoms except in different, much boring context, haha. But bear dis is mind, I love u from the deep of my heart, and any decision that I’ll make in life is based on securing u a much better, brighter future, InsyaAllah.
Why am I doing this? Why do I write my own blog? Is it bcos I want to express my ideas, my feelings, well, dat may be true, but the main thing is I just wanna make sure u guys, my beloveds know what is going thru to my head, once when im was alive.
Seriusly, im the kind of person who always believes that death can come whenever, wherever it wanted which is an definitely an undeniable truth. The angel of death, is never compassionate, and we cud never delay death even for a second. Everyone have their own dateline to meet God, and we NEVER know when, and before I go, I just wanna make sure that u know that I was once alive, I was once a friend, fighting along u guys in order to overcome one of the hardest obstacles in life, with sweat overflowing and blood pumping with adrenaline thru our thick veins, remember that I was once a colleague that share the same load, the same driving force to accomplish the task given by our superiors, remember me as a teammate, sharing this same sweat and tears of pain and glory on the pitch, a companion that accompany you throughout this amazing, wonderful journey, a loyal citizen who is sworn to protect this country from any evil means; only wish it to be harmony and prosperous that held a better future for u guys to live in, a humble servant who is often lack of consistency and often swayed in fulfilling His orders, and most importantly im just normal human whu was once alive and breathe the same air as u guys had now, and for all these reminder I have in mind, I wanna say it, I wanna share for I believe that sharing is caring, and contributing to society doesn’t mean it can’t be achieved when we’re no longer in this world. Whu said that u must possess a physical, healthy body to inspire people, to change the world? No, but it's in the spirit, in your burning passion to spread the ideas and ur beliefs is what keeps the fighting on. I may not be influential enough, or had not contributed anything to society yet, dan I may had not taken any actions towards that way, but like I always said, keinginan tu tetap ada, haha.
Life is full of hardships, and I just finished pursuing my degree, and Ive gotta admit, im lost, and I cant see any road or pavement that I can walk on, only uncertainties and ignorance in my mind, but I can see the light far ahead, and what’s more important my beloveds, is that, never afraid of moving forward, and please give it a try, make an effort and give ur best shot, berusaha dan bertawakal, kerana Allah menjanjikan kejayaan kepada mereka yang berusaha, and it’s always never too late to make effort :-)
Right now, im so busy to find a job, and my mind is more occupied with worries of where am I going to spend the next maybe 5-10 years in the future, thus the problem of trying to find your mum is best I put it aside, for now, haha. There are lots of things I wanna accomplish right now, lots of things going thru my head, and lots of possibilities that’s about to happen, and one of my important crossroads throughout my life is about to occur, but insyaAllah I will make thru it in one piece, I love you guys, my beloved, my new found family, the old ones, fellas, all of you, like I always had.
you know even without writing down everything people still remember us when we r gone.if in slightest way we touch others,what we did,what we make them feel even if we may not realise so.thus rest assured people will remember when we are not here.and crossroads everyone's going or gone through it,when its not even at the end of the road u r already panicking bt its natural,expected even.gudluck in overcoming this phase.my time is near gak,cuak2.ahaha
ReplyDelete:) hanafiah..m sure ur future kids will appreciate these..n hanafiah..u'll do just fine..
ReplyDeletelike u always had ;)
nice post brotherhood..really mean it! hope those kids will read this one day perhaps..and surely they will b proud of their father.n got the adrenaline rush everytime they try to dig more about who u are. to really know by heart the complexity of your DNA that runs in their blood by that time.. (^_^)
ReplyDeletewe want more!we want more! hehe
dayana, thanks for reading dis, yeah its rite dat if we touch others people will eventually remember us, the gud deeds we had done in life, but still, i just like to do dis, tak tau napa, haha. have u ever heard dat one day people will eventually forget about us, or what we looked like when we were once alive? so ni sdikit sbnayk membantu la, kononnya, tkpa, just think dis as one of those hanafiah's ngada2 drama queen episodes :-)
ReplyDeletesu,haha, thanks for reading it, i hope u will do better, haha. my future kids eh? it seems dat statement seems to far fetched rite now, tp insyaAllah we all will be reaching dat critical point in life :-)
haha, saidah, thanks gak for reading dis, ko patut pgi stadi weyh, nk exam, haha, tkda, saja gurau. yeah, its not me je yang ada adrenaline rush, i can sense yours esp tgh2 malam from ur fb statuses,haha, tkpa, gambatte kudasai, be a great mom saidah! :-)
yup,people will eventually forget us,our face bt there will b moments that triggers the remembrance of those who had gone,and all the memory will come back through.plus we do include them in our prayer,so dats daily pn..with all this advance technologies i think its really hard 2 forge sum1 unless u want 2.hahahaha
ReplyDeletebt what u did is great,ur kids will b proud.anyway,dramamaqueen episodes eh?=B
yup,people will eventually forget us,our face bt there will b moments that triggers the remembrance of those who had gone,and all the memory will come back through.plus we do include them in our prayer,so dats daily pn..with all this advance technologies i think its really hard 2 forge sum1 unless u want 2.hahahaha
ReplyDeletebt what u did is great,ur kids will b proud.anyway,dramaqueen episodes eh?=B